You know that friend you have, the one you talk to about everything, the one you've known for years, the one you call your "best friend". Well, you know that day when she comes to you and tells you she's met a boy and she really likes him, but she's nervous about what could happen and of course like everybody, she has worries and asks her "best friend" for advice and of course you talk to her and help her get through it and help her get through all her problems as a matter of fact but little did you know that she would forget you when that relationship took off. As immature as it sounds and as immature as it is, it happens. Even to the "best of friends" it happens. I've known of some people who thought it was normal - that all you need in life is you're spouse and your kids, because it is their own little world, their own little family, etc. But is that all they need? The people who blow off their friends, aren't they the same people you see married with kids who end up wanting more in life? EVERYBODY needs a friend. As serious as your relationship may be you can't revolve your life around when your boyfriend is busy so that you can make other plans with the friend, the one that was ALWAYS there for you. But that's what they end up doing "I can only hang out when he works or when he's busy" oh and then when you end up hanging out, they can't even put their phone down from talking to them. Besides the fact it looks desperate, it's also terribly rude. But it's okay I guess you were never a real friend anyway.